In addition to its assumption and its redefinition of what to look for in a partner, Leap Year also cuts at the modern romance by establishing a new model for the path to love. It’s really quite simple and profound: Anna and Declan find love, not through lust, but by turning aside from it. They first fight like cats and dogs, but eventually come to a sort of mutual dislike that allows them to work together. Then they kiss and find themselves lusting for each other. So far, the normal rom-com path to true love. But Leap Year, by redefining the meaning of a modern romance, dramatically departs from what we all expect to come next.
In a critical scene, after Anna and Declan are forced to kiss at the dinner-table, they end up in the same bed, and all experienced movie-goers are anticipating the worst. Though they begin the night turned away from each other they both slowly turn, and end up face to face. Then, with a swiftness that makes this scene seem less important than it actually is, they turn away and keep their distance. Compare this to a similar scene in P.S. I Love You, where a handsome Irishman ends up staying at Holly’s house (for those who haven’t seen this film, please don’t waste the two hours it would take. You still get the idea). Instead of submitting to a purely animal instinct, Anna and Declan thrust lust aside and make the decision to view each other not as animals, a means to sexual satisfaction, but as human beings who must be cared for and thought of beyond the merely physical. In the split second that it takes for them to turn away, Leap Year redefines what a love story should be. When lust comes they turn aside and the story shouts, “That’s not the way to love someone.”
And it is the morning after they have overcome this important hurdle that they can truly begin to care for each other. Declan finds himself falling for Anna. After choosing to view her as human being, he can accurately evaluate everything she’s said before and he begins to see what a beautiful soul she really has. He sees that she wants a traditional family like he does, even though she’s never said it in so many words. He sees that she believes the same things about a father and husband that he does. And because he has put aside the animal instinct he finds himself able to truly love her as a whole, not mere physically. Anna, on the other hand, first comes to see Declan as her friend. She finds herself, after making a decision to view him as a human to be cared for, learning to trust him, quite a feat as she has never come across a man that she could trust. She begins to care when he’s in pain, to want to help him. At the wedding, when Declan walks away in pain, she follows him to try and help, something she never would have done the day before.
It is at this same wedding where, after Anna has knocked out the bride and ruined her dress, we encounter the film’s other stereotypical scene. The depressed Anna is sitting on the shore of a lake, drinking from a more than half empty alcohol bottle. The sober Declan walks up and tipsy Anna proceeds to explain what’s wrong with him. “You’re in pain” she declares, “You’re like a lion.....a lovely, lovely lion” During this cliche speech she’s moving in close while the moonlight on the water illuminates their profiles. It’s set up to be a repeat of Anne Hathaway’s scene in Paris in The Devil Wears Prada where she ends up in bed next to sober man who was walking her home. And yet Leap Year once again jolts the cliche. Anna throws up on Declan’s shoe and Declan, remarking how extremely unromantic it all is, carries her to a park bench where they spend the night. Once again, the ideal of turning aside from lust has come into play, and it is after this final declaration of returning to a traditional romance that Anna finally discovers that she loves Declan. When she wakes up the next morning, Anna realizes that Declan has taken care of her and that she can trust him. She feels as if he is the man she’s been trying to find all this while, after which she finds herself madly in love with him. Thus, Leap Year makes a decisive cut at the lust to love model seen in films such as PS I Love You and other such typical rom coms. Only by turning aside from the modern model do the characters in Leap Year come to love each other.